People 100 years old were surveyed about marriage, family, and happiness. Here are some statements the centenarians made about marriage:
“Have more understanding.” “Plan and do things together.” “Do not get divorced; make it work.” “Respect, trust, and forgive.” “Say I love you more often”
“In 1910, nearly 80 percent of households contained a married couple. That continued through 1950, when the number plummeted to 74 percent (in 1965), en route to 64 percent (in 1977), and then 56 percent (in 1989)” – Wetzel, James R. (1990, March). Monthly Labor Review.
These people have seen and experienced a lot of change but their comments still seem to reflect hope. They have the confident expectation that if you make your spouse a priority and work together you can make a happy marriage. After watching all these changes and trends in our country and culture the majority of their comments are about how to stay connected. The comments don’t seem to focus on how to manipulate or get their way. The focus is commitment and connection that will bring them together with enjoyment for a lifetime. This generation understood sacrifice. They believe that you can do something to make things better, that love is an action that can make life and relationships better.
Do you think their advice is relevant today?
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